I'm going to add into this, because I have, on a few occasions (one of which being, er, last week or so), had my own box wibbles of "oh god do people like me, do people really want to play with me, or are they just doing it because I asked, wah wibbly cakes aiee?"

I know there are undercurrents, even in box, that tend to ebb and flow depending on situations, stresses, and times of the year, and I truly think it's due to the fact that we can't see each other and actually talk to each other more than a time or two a year. I know perceptions are easy to assume, and communication is the only thing that helps this kind of thing along.

Boo.

Anonymous, let me know if I can do anything, okay?